Breakups are as common as spit
Next to Birth, Death and Taxes
pretty much everyone gets to experience it at one time or another.
A right of passage?
According to my friends it is. Their soothing words of advice?
“… the next one will be better!’
the next what? The next break up or the next boyfriend.
oh boy I can hardly wait.
I love my friends
The dearest and most honest people know
I would be a complete basket case, a giant decomposing bowl of mush, if you will, without them..
the common theme of advise was
” He’s a Loser!! Move On. What he did to you was crap. You are better then that. You are a fine person.”
Ah my friends. I do truly love all of them.
Although it diminishes the hurt and pain somewhat, no doubt this one still hurts.
I guess because I had developed such respect for his opinions and thoughts that when those opinions and thoughts thought ill of me, not wanting to engage in conversation, resenting who I was and whatever else. It was almost as if I was feeling those thoughts towards myself.
Of course I have the greatest friends on the planet, thank you very much, who each one in their own way opened up my eyes and gave me strength to believe in myself.
Not that I didn’t believe in myself and of course his thoughts are not mine ….. but ….inside it still hurts.
You know there should be an Epidural for Break ups.
I bet it would be a big seller.
I will survive, this I know. I am strong, this too I know.
And I have great friends that I will know until I die and beyond that.
I thank the powers that be for that!
But just for the record … Breakups Suck Ass!